The modern-day relationship is now as complicated as you would imagine. gone are the days where ladies in Africa were just given to men to marry without any sort of relationship or courtship. Modern day men tend to be driven away by the partners in a relationship due to one or two actions.
There are some few things ladies do to push their men away knowingly or unknowingly. I have made a list of six things ladies do and we will digest here.
NOT OPENING UP
Being in a relationship isn’t like playing a game of Poker, in this instance keeping your cards close to your chest just isn’t an option. For a relationship to work, you need to open up to your partner about your feelings.
NOT BEING HONEST
Hiding things from any man and keeping secrets is not the best of things to do. You will drive him away. Relationships should be open and honest; putting walls up will push both partners apart.
Never expressing your feelings or sharing your problems with your so-called partner will make you become resentful towards him and will definitely push you away. Keeping your problems to your self-will keep you moody and your man not knowing what is wrong all the time is also not the best.
Jealous and suspicious behavior is a surefire way to drive you partner away. If you start snooping on him without any valid reasons, trust me, he will find his safe haven.
Wanting to be present in your man’s life is totally normally, but trying to control everything he does is not the best! Relationships are all about letting your partner breathe and do their own thing. Try controlling your man like a puppet is a definite assurance of him leaving you.
Okay, so your man not picking up a couple of times just once or twice is annoying, but make an effort not to nag your man because your bad moods will eventually push him away.